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First and last times

The best thing about getting so close to ‘occupancy’ is realising the number of first times and last times that we are experiencing…

Over the past few months I have been thinking about first and last times for so many things… In November, we sprayed water around the ‘utility’ room for the last time as the final coat of render went on the walls. Later that month I cleaned up dropped render for the last time in that room. The last time ever!

And it was only a few weeks later that we did the same for the master bedroom and finally my study. All internal rendering completely completed in the main pavilion! Woo-bloody-hoo!

Then, when the stove plumber came back later that month, to fit off the radiators and bleed our hydronic system (for the last time), we lit the combustion stove for the first time. Yes, it’s true the plumber lit it when he installed the flue, just to test there were no leaks, but this time I lit it, just to warm the house (yes, in November!) and have some warmth tick around the radiators… for the first time.

In January, with the floor finally laid, sanded and polished, we wiped down kitchen benches and vacuumed up red sanding dust for the last time. Oh, okay, we probably will be cleaning up sanding dust for months to come…

But the biggest first and last time, would have to be just over a week ago… Massive thank you to Matt (our building inspector) and Lorna (our ‘permit liaison person’ and very dear friend) for their support in us getting here! We achieved occupancy! Okay, we don’t have the actual piece of paper yet, and we’ve still got a way to go to be completely finished, but we got verbal approval to inhabit our main pavilion!

So, last weekend, Richard and I slept in the shedudio for the last time and on the Sunday we moved our bed over to the master bedroom. After celebratory pizza and champagne at P and K’s house, we came home to sleep in our new bedroom for the first time!

It’s just our big old bed in a spanking new, almost empty room, but we are loving it. I must admit it took the first few nights to really settle in and be able to actually sleep and when the rain hit in the middle of the week we almost regretted doing it as we trekked across in the mud to go to bed… but no, I refuse to feel remorseful – this is a huge step forward and the best possible way to make it all start feeling so much more real.

Waking up in that beautiful room (for the first time) has got to be one of the best moments I have ever had.

We’ve had babies!

This blog comes with an apology right up front, for the poor photography! Many of my photos were taken through the glass which (even though I did clean it!) made my images blurry – that was the only way to get ‘up close’ to the adult wrens. And I will admit, I need more practice without the auto focus too – I’ve managed to get the fern in focus instead of the real subject of the photo. *Sigh* Might do better next year!

Not sure exactly when we became aware of ‘activity’ in the potted hare’s foot fern near the door to our shedudio… a flash of blue and an indignant chirp each time we emerged from our living space.

Then almost at the same moment Richard and I commented that we thought a wren might be building a nest in the fern.

The first week or two it was just that – activity and movement – with no visible ‘nest’. But the male wren continued to get ‘caught out’ coming and going with bits and pieces in his beak. The female was doing the same, but she was not as easy to see – nature is clever like that.

Then in what seemed like just a few days a bundle of fine sticks and grasses appeared on the top of the fern. They didn’t try to hide their nest, they launched it high and proud on the top of the potted plant, in full view of us. We mused on why they would want to house their new family so close to human activity and to our dog! But perhaps they are so clever that they realised he was not a threat (being always behind the fence or on a lead) and that while we were nearby other predators such as the goanna, a snake or a fox would be less likely to come near. Either way, nest they did and home they built.

In just a few days three small white eggs were visible inside the dainty oval nest. Mrs wren is back and forth – darting off into the trees every time we open the door, then returning when we are out of sight. She must be exhausted.

And Mr wren is dancing and prancing at us, flashing his wings and hopping away and back. ‘Look at me, look at me, come away, follow me’ as he tries to draw us away from his family.

A couple of weeks later and we can see tiny pink ‘worms’ – three tiny hatchlings. Then the real activity begins. Both mother and father wren coming and going with all manner of insects and bugs to feed their hungry brood.

Even as we peer into the nest, our movement nearby is enough for the babies to spring open their beaks in anticipation.

They grow unbelievably fast. It is only a matter of days and the pink worms have transformed into tiny buddhas – feathers forming, beaks more distinct, eyes opening.

It seems only another day or two and our babies are out and trying to fly, watched closely by  mama and papa and so well camouflaged in my lemon myrtle pot plant that I have had to put a red circle around two of them and cannot see the third at all…

One thing I could not capture on the camera was the crazy injured bird dance that Mrs wren performed while I was poking around her young ones with the camera! Initially I really thought she was injured as she danced across in front of me with one wing dragging on the ground, but as soon as I looked away she was up and agile again, flitting after the babies without any problems at all. Incredibly clever!

Read more about our wildlife.

Legacy versus practicality

Richard has fiercely hung on to creating my kitchen from scratch… we discuss (vigorously? passionately?) the pros and cons of a flat pack kitchen. My nephew buys and installs, in just a few days, a brand new kitchen in his existing house. I am swayed – wooed by the promise of a short time frame. Perhaps also enticed by being able to use the Ikea software to design, ‘construct’, and select the whole kitchen in a few hours. I would be able to ‘see’ it, play around with combinations of cabinet and drawer sizes, try various drawer front colours, materials, styles…

My beloved husband holds fast and starts designing my kitchen on his antiquated drafting software. I begin to collect images of kitchen ideas I like.

Part of me wishes I had kept a journal of the process. The joys, the tears, the disparate views and the final coming together. Our creative process. Two talented, passionate people each trying to make their mark on what will essentially be the heart of our home. A shared project, the maker and the ‘client’, working towards a unified vision. But I suspect such a record would also include tears, tantrums, a few dummy spits, and some hands flung into the air in frustration. I might have said ‘but it’s MY kitchen’ a few times. I could perhaps be referred to by some (a little unkindly I think) as a typical ‘client from hell’. And my mostly patient husband might have lost it once or twice…

But really, what does all that matter, when finally, we arrive. The format and layout of the cabinets is agreed. The overall design is finalised. The drawer and cupboard front materials and style are determined. The benches are, well…

Richard agrees to outsource the solid timber benches (reclaimed forest reds) as ‘blanks’ that he can cut to size, join and install and we can sand and oil ourselves, thus still putting our ‘stamp’ on this component – and SAVING some time. We decide to bleach the Tassie oak face frames, drawer fronts and cupboard doors to achieve the ‘whitewashed’ look I have my heart set on (but cannot achieve with conventional whitewash paints), again putting our creative stamp on the kitchen – but ADDING more time.

What we are creating together will take AGES. Overall we have added more processes than we have saved; aspects the average person would not even think of including in what should be a straight forward kitchen construction. But what we are creating together will be a standout kitchen. Our compromise, finally agreeable to both, is going to be an outstanding and extraordinary success.

And this, in all its pain and glory, is Richard’s legacy. We cannot achieve that depth of creativity, craftsmanship, fine detail and quality (and all its ‘oohs and aahs’) if all we focus on is practicality.

So, I give in to craftsmanship (legacy) for the kitchen and vow to work harder at letting it go on the things that don’t matter quite so much.

It’s important to reflect…

I found myself talking to a colleague yesterday, who knew nothing about my non-work life or the project Richard and I are now struggling to stay positive about…

As I answered her questions (about our build) and described all the things we have done so far, all the achievements, triumphs we have reached, and all the hopes and ambitions we started out with, I started to feel reconnected to The Dream. I felt my heart quicken, my speech become more animated, and I’m pretty sure my eyes started to brighten.

When you are just so far into the build, and it has taken way too long to even get that far, that all you can see is how much more you have to do, it is really important to show and tell to someone who doesn’t know you. This provides two things: really positive feedback, incredulity at how enormous and amazing what you are doing is; and a reconnection to your project that rekindles your passion.

Thank you Lorna, for your encouragement and genuine enthusiasm for what Richard and I are doing.

Topping out

What a great day! Richard and Rob finally completed the timber work for the roof of the second pavilion. Our highest point was reached today, so of course Richard had to scale the structure to place a small bough at the apex – our topping out gesture.

I know traditionally (Scandinavian?) we are supposed to use an evergreen tree, but we used what we had to hand, a eucalypt branch, to acknowledge the achievement of getting all the structure in place, without mishap, and to pay tribute to the beautiful bush in which we are building our home.

So it is full steam ahead with the roof as soon as possible as we work towards getting both buildings water tight. For updates on our building progress, see Building in progress.

Topping out – final highest roof line